How would you respond to this invitation: “Professor, our cohort is going out for dinner and a few drinks to celebrate the end of another class. We would love it if you would join us.”
To complicate it, let’s assume that you really connected – personally and intellectually --with this group of adults over the course of eight weeks. Plus you’re down-right famished and just a little bit dry. Being that the invitation is an offshoot of your professional relationship with your students, must you look beyond hunger or thirst levels as the rationale for your choice?
Situations like these force adjuncts to consider the ethical boundaries, not always drawn with bright lines, of interaction with students outside of the classroom. You can find the horns of a dilemma here. Research shows that interacting with instructors outside the classroom can positively benefit a student socially and academically (see the prior entry on emotional intelligence in the classroom). At the same time, by socializing with students, the instructor might enjoy a power differential, risk losing objectivity, and undermine the professional nature of the relationship. (Rupert at 662).
With those competing interests in mind, what are your available options?
Does the fact that this is an adult program alter the equation? Does the timing of the invite – after the course rather than during it – matter? What if the request came from a single student rather than the whole class?
There is some interesting research on the contours of the professor-student relationship. Click here for an article in the Journal of Higher Education that explores “dual relationships” in higher education. Click here for an article using short case studies to consider ethical issues facing college professors (including social invites). And finally, click here for an offbeat article about an instructor who hosts colleagues and students at his home bar. What do you think about that?
Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.
Reference: Rupert, Patricia A. and Holmes, Deborah L., Dual relationships in higher education. Journal of Higher Education; Nov/Dec97, Vol. 68 Issue 6, p660-678.




